The reason men are so obsessed with achievements is because nobody gives a damn about them, Including the majority of men.
The closest thing you can get as a man to being cared about and sought after, is being cared about because you are useful and successful.
Implicit in the role of provider is not being loved for who you are, but what you can do.
Men have no inherent value, women and children are valued simply for existing.
This is why boyhood to manhood is an especially rough and challenging transition for males. Because, they’re no longer loved simply for existing.
Their worthiness must be proved, or they’re nothing and no one cares.
For males, people actually acknowledge their existence when they try being a success object.
Men who actually don’t make it aren’t even assigned a base level of compassion or human decency. They’re seen as invisible and underclass.
I believe you are not defined by what you can do, but by who you are as a person. You are infinitely more humanised if this principle apply.
Women preserve their value, men create theirs.
This is why the average woman is more valuable than the average man. Especially in a society that favours women over men.
Women in their infinite desire to upgrade only focus on winners. They’re blind to men beneath them and obsessed with men above them.
This is why the feminist arguments about their rights to be equal could be put into jeopardy.
This translates politically as women demand special privileges in general because minority of men dominates the majority of positions of power.
Men need love too, success isn’t a lifestyle choice for them. It’s a matter of life and death. Meanwhile, it’s a lifestyle choice for women.
A woman who fails in academic studies can just give up and become a wife/mother without having the thoughts that she’s a loser.
She will still be wanted for who she is.
Who is interested in a loser as a man?
So this is why I think men will always outdo women at the high end of the society. And women’s voice for equality may have a deteriorating volume.
Written by: Elvis Williams
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